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Here’s what to tell yourself now ⬇️ •\tI don’t need to shrink to be loved. \t•\tThe right man won’t make me earn basic consistency. \t•\tI was available to someone who wasn’t available to himself. That isn’t my failure. \t•\tI can stop fighting for a connection he never held with me. \t•\tI deserve affection that doesn’t disappear when things get real. \t•\tThose moments with him were real in flashes, but they weren’t who he truly was. \t•\tI can release the hope that the beginning will ever ret